shape improves your health and your dating prospects. But the more
immediate benefit is that rewards satisfy your craving to eat or to gain
status or to win approval. At least for a moment, rewards deliver
contentment and relief from craving.
Second, rewards teach us which actions are worth remembering in the
future. Your brain is a reward detector. As you go about your life, your
sensory nervous system is continuously monitoring which actions satisfy
your desires and deliver pleasure. Feelings of pleasure and disappointment
are part of the feedback mechanism that helps your brain distinguish useful
actions from useless ones. Rewards close the feedback loop and complete
the habit cycle.
If a behavior is insufficient in any of the four stages, it will not become a
habit. Eliminate the cue and your habit will never start. Reduce the craving
and you won’t experience enough motivation to act. Make the behavior
difficult and you won’t be able to do it. And if the reward fails to satisfy
your desire, then you’ll have no reason to do it again in the future. Without
the first three steps, a behavior will not occur. Without all four, a behavior
will not be repeated.